At Holy Trinity’s Annual Congregational Meeting on January 29, 2006:
On January 29, 2006, Holy Trinity voted to join the Confessing Movement (later to be Known as the Lutheran Coalition for Renewal – CORE). In doing so, Holy Trinity expressly affirmed The Common Confession. Common Confession contains a paragraph on marriage and family which states:
CC6) Marriage and Family
We believe and confess that the marriage of male and female is an institution created and blessed by God. From marriage, God forms families to serve as the building blocks of all human civilization and community. We teach and practice that sexual activity belongs exclusively within the biblical boundaries of a faithful marriage between one man and one woman.
Holy Trinity went on record on January 29, 2006 that we believe and teach this.
What NALC Lutheran Congregations Believe and Teach about Marriage
(The following is taken directly from the June 2013 Issue of the NALC Newsletter:)
Seeking to provide clarity and express mutual agreement on what Scripture teaches about marriage and sexuality, the North American Lutheran Church has joined the Anglican Church in North America (ACNA), Lutheran Church-Canada (LCC) and the Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod (LC-MS) in releasing “An Affirmation of Marriage.”
This statement is the result of a landmark ecumenical summit May 3-5, 2013 at Church of the Holy Communion in Dallas, Texas.
The theme of the meeting was “Biblical Teaching on Marriage and Sexuality”. Presentations and discussion focused on the shared historic understanding of marriage as a holy estate, divinely created by God to be the union of man and woman.
The ecumenical summit and Affirmation of Marriage are the result of multi-lateral consultations among the four church bodies.
As North American culture wrestles with issues of marriage and family, the participants of this ecumenical dialogue sought clarity and agreement on Scriptural teaching, with the intention of developing a common statement. A draft was presented and discussed at the summit, and the final form of the statement was determined in the weeks following the gathering.
The statement is intended to provide clear, concise instruction to clergy and members of the participating denominations, but also to be an unequivocal affirmation of Biblical teaching with regard to marriage between male and female as the essential and unchanging foundation for home, family, church, and society.
Ecumenical Statement: An Affirmation of Marriage
The Sacred Scriptures teach that in the beginning the blessed Trinity instituted marriage to be the life-long union of one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:4-6), to be held in honor by all and kept pure (Hebrews 13:4; 1 Thessalonians 4:2-5). God’s Word assures us that each time one man and one woman join themselves together in the union of the marriage commitment and relationship, God Himself has joined them as one. It is important to see that marriage is not only a grace-filled institution of the Church, but part of the very fabric of God’s creation which extends to every time and place on earth and includes every man and woman who are joined together in this “one flesh” commitment and bond. Marriage is created by God and is not simply a social contract or convenience.
Flowing from the gift of marriage is another precious gift of God, the gift of children. “Be fruitful and multiply” (Genesis 1:28) is as much a word of divine blessing as it is a command. Children are the most obvious, distinctive, and natural gift of marriage, for the child is in every sense the “one flesh” of the mother and father. Marriage lived out according to God’s purpose is therefore also, just as naturally, the optimal setting for the child. Within the gift of marriage children receive the blessing of a father and mother who nurture and care for them, modeling a life in which the distinctive uniqueness and created differences of male and female serve to complement each other.
Part of the tragedy of contemporary cultural perspectives in Europe and North America is a growing bifurcation of marriage and child-bearing. Growing numbers of men avoid or abdicate fatherly responsibility. Growing numbers of women choose to have and/or raise children apart from marriage. Just as frequently encountered is the pervasive assumption of married couples that postponing or purposefully rejecting children is compatible with the marriage bond. In these different ways, children appear to have value only to the extent they fulfill parental desires.
While the gift of procreation is a profound and beautiful testimony of the blessedness of marriage and reveals one of marriage’s most fundamental purposes, marital goodness is not limited by procreation. Where procreation is not possible, many couples choose to adopt a child into their family and, regardless of intention, also reflect the divine love which leads God to adopt us as His own (Romans 8:15; Galatians 4:5).
So also, a childless couple exhibits, richly and beautifully, the blessings and goodness of man and woman living in complementarity. Although as an individual male and an individual female they are different, even to the point of often seeming to be alien to the other, their sexual and emotional bond enacts a life of self-giving openness to each other, protected by the bond of faithfulness. The committed love of marriage always reveals God’s intention that individuals are called into community , since marriage takes us beyond our individual identities so that we give ourselves to another who is distinctively different from us.
The beauty and significance of marriage go beyond its earthly effects — as rich and wonderful as they are. God gave marriage as a picture of the relationship between Christ and His bride, the Church. In sustained and exalted language, Ephesians 5:21-33 connects godly marriage with the glorious relationship of Christ and His Church. As a man and woman relate to one another with rich love and profound respect, their one flesh union hints of and is intended to signify the union of Christ and His bride, the Church. But Christ and His bride also indicate the fullness of divine intention for marriage. Speaking of Christ as Bridegroom and Church as bride, the apostle notes that husbands are called to sacrificial love toward their wives and wives to a willing respect for their husbands.
In responding to the bitter reality of divorce, the Word made flesh, our Lord Jesus, reaffirms the gift of marriage and then reminds us of an obvious implication: “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate” (see Matthew 19:3b-6). His warning is necessary because the beautiful gift of marriage — like all of God’s created goodness — can be and is marred by sin, which Jesus describes as “hardness of heart” (Matthew 19:8). Yet, sin does not have ultimate power. Christians recognize that marriage is lived under the cross. Husbands and wives are not exempt from the suffering that comes with faithfulness in marriage. Rather, trusting in the promises of Christ Jesus and clinging to each other in love, marriage is the arena for husband and wife to live together in repentance and faith.
God’s intention for marriage is also skewed when it is spurned as unimportant for human well-being, or repudiated as a godly gift, or twisted into forms that no longer correspond to the gift God has intended. Rather, God gives marriage to humanity for its well-being. He commends Biblical marriage for couples to make a deep commitment to one another before God for a lifetime of giving to each other.
In faithfulness to Christ and in recognition of God’s desire to continue to bless men and women in the gift of holy marriage, the Church through the ages has sought to encourage godly, joyful, faithful preparation for marriage according to God’s plan and work. This is in obedience to the Scriptures which call men and women to an appropriate discipline of desire. Our human inclination is one of self-satisfaction, but God’s Word calls us to a higher purpose — serving God and others (see Romans 6:12-14; 1 John 4:20). To serve the other requires the discipline of our bodies, which obviously includes sexual desires (see Romans 13:13). Therefore both Biblical and wider human traditions of most cultures have emphasized the importance of chaste relationships which reserve sexual intimacy for marriage.
In such ways Scripture holds forth a vision of human life as male and female — one which invites us to see that as embodied creatures, our Creator intends great joy for us. Joyful, fulfilled life as men and women requires a paradox, however, for it demands the discipline of our bodies so that our desires do not rule us. This is so because the source of deepest human joy comes as our lives reflect their highest purpose in serving God and our neighbor (Matthew 22:38-39).